Sunday, December 13, 2015

I WILL BRING YOU HOME


December 13, 2015
Advent 3
Zephaniah 3:14-20
Philippians 4:4-7
(prayer)
Last week, Patti and I went and saw the new Christmas movie, Love TheCoopers. 
Anyone else see it?  Not surprised.  It is not destined to be a classic, but it was 'okay'.  Was only in Leduc for the one week and only one screening per day.
It was a pretty formulaic flick of several generations of a family, coming together for Christmas dinner.  Of course, as is usually the case in these kind of movies, there are a few skeletons in the various closets.  Some relationships were strained (a few newly, some with long standing problems), people had their personal problems and were going through life changes.
In summary: members of family were doing their best to hide their problems from each other. 
Diane Keaton (the character who was hosting the dinner) wanted it to be a stress free, perfect gathering.  Of course, that was not to be - but, as expected, the happy ending was that the difficulties, once openly admitted, didn't really matter.
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Have you ever had that experience (?) - when you are getting together with a group (family event, reunion, etc.) and are a bit hesitant about being your authentic self.
I know I have.  I've put on the good face and faked it.
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Why do I [we] do that?
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I think it has something to do with our advent theme for this Sunday: Joy.
People (quite reasonably) desire to have joy in their lives.  In fact, when the absence of joy manifests itself in the form of depression, the lack of happiness can be one of the most debilitating of human conditions.
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Joy often shows itself to the wider world around us.  It takes a lot of discipline to keep a lid on joy - joy is hard to hide.
But - many people are resident to share their sadness.  We may be very open to expose our joy, but not so with our anti-joy.
There is a tragic irony in all of this because sadness is often made worse because of isolation.  Isolation had the impact of convincing ourselves that others don't (or can't) understand us.
Even if we believe that others might be able to understand us, we might be further blocked by the believe that we would be burdening others with ours  problems.
And so, we bury the sadness - and we present a false joy to those around us.
That is what the Cooper family was doing in the movie.
Realistic or not (true or not), we convince ourselves that the goal is always the perfect home where only JOY exists.
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But... the common experience (when it is given a chance) is that our capacity for understanding and empathy is greater than we sometimes assume.
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I believe that within most human hearts is the natural desire -when we see sadness in the life of someone - we want to bring them into a circle of care where joy might increase: to nurture and massage the sadness until it can give way (bit by bit) to joy.
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The perfect family, the perfect home is not the one that knows only joy, but the one that works on the edges of the joy that is possible.
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An experience of ample joy is a common goal in life.  And yet, it is also common to experience times when joy is elusive.
And so, we seek 'authentic' joy.
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Both of our scripture readings today call for people to express joy - to rejoice.
The prophet Zephaniah, writing to the people of Judah in the late 7th century BCE, invited them to "sing, shout, rejoice and exult with all your heart" because they had no need to "fear disaster" anymore.
The Apostle Paul, writing to the early Christians living in the Macedonian city of Philippi in the mid 50s of the 1st century CE, invited them to set aside all worry and continually "rejoice" because the understanding peace of God was "guarding their minds and hearts".
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At first glance, we might be tempted to assume that Hebrews (living in Jerusalem during the time of Zephaniah) and Christians (living in Philippi during the time of Paul) were experiencing great joy - that life was good and relatively care-free.
Exploring the history a bit and we discover that exactly the opposite was the case.
Zephaniah was a contemporary of (the more well known Jerusalem prophet) Jeremiah.  The late 7th century BCE was a time of expansion for the Babylonian Empire - Judah was on the Empire's imperialism wish list.  Judah (modern southern Israel and Gaza) was physically located in a very desirable location: it has a lengthy coastline access to the Great (Mediterranean) Sea; it is on the crossroads of three continents (Asia, Africa and Europe) and, as such, was deeply important for any power wanting to control trade routes.
By the time Zephaniah and Jeremiah were offering their versions of God's opinions for the urban people of Jerusalem, the Babylonians already controlled much of the rural areas of the southern Hebrew kingdom.  The city walls buffered Jerusalem from the impact of the Empire in the short term, but it was a tense, worrisome time for the people who lived near the great temple of Solomon.
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Similarly, twenty years after the lifetime of Jesus, the movement of faithful followers was still figuring out its purpose and vision.  It was a new expression of spirituality that had some roots in the grand Hebrew faith, but was discovering that it needed to grow beyond those roots.  It may have not be commonly called Christianity yet, but Jesus as the Risen Christ was central to this emerging faith.  The followers of Jesus were struggling with each other about how this faith was to impact the their life.  As well, how they fit into the wider culture was a on-going issue for the early church.
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It actually makes sense (if you think about it) that if rejoicing was coming easy to Zephaniah's and Paul's audiences, they probably wouldn't have to encourage it so forcefully.
You don't need to preach the value of joy to a happy people.
It was - in fact - a climate of worry and fear that gave rise to these messages to the Hebrews of Jerusalem and the Christians of Philippi.
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The Babylonians are on the doorstep.  Yet... God is with you too.  And God will not let you disappear; you will flourish and be renowned in all the earth.
The Babylonians are on the doorstep.  Yet... God is with you.  So, do not be afraid; instead rejoice as you do during festivals.
The Babylonians are on the  doorstep.  Even, if the advance and overcome you, it will not last.  You will be re-gathered,  returned home,  restored.
Sing loud.  Rejoice.
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The believers in Philippi were part of one of the founding churches in Europe.  Paul was, obviously, very fond of this community - as they were with him.
The content of the letter is largely encouraging - as opposed to a more condemning theme we see in some other letters.  Paul's overarching encouragement is for the Philippians to humble, so that they can find unity with each other and with Christ.  That implies that there may have been some struggles and differences within the church.
But the larger worry that undergirds this correspondence is the fate of Paul himself.
While the Apostle wrote this letter, he was a prisoner of the Roman authorities.  Paul spends a fair amount of time in the letter trying to ease the church's worries for him.
He proclaims his own confidence in God's love and compassion as an example for the Philippians to follow.  More so, Paul uses the example of Jesus' own grace as he suffered as a model to be emulated:
Let the same mind be in you
that was in Christ Jesus.
Yes, there may be some worry and even suffering in our present and future.  Yet... still, be humble and find hope enough to rejoice.
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The prophet and the apostle knew that when joy comes easy, we don't need to be reminded to rejoice.  When joy comes easy, we do not need to be given examples of how joy is possible in difficult and worrisome times.
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I appreciate the subtle message that the readers of Philippian letter probably noticed in the words Paul chose.
In the Greek of the letter, the word for 'rejoice' is xairo (kah-ee-ro), which is related to xaris (kar-eece) - the word for 'grace'.
To rejoice - in the midst of worry - is a gift of God.
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Unlike the Cooper family in the movie, a faked joy - intended to hid the true self - is not what is being encouraged in our readings today.
It is not enough to simply come together and pretend that a sense of belonging and home will just emerge.
Joy sometimes takes work.
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Paul preaches humility:  which is an honest embracing of our needs and deficiencies.
Zephaniah proclaims a long-term holy promise that sees beyond the worry of the moment: the promise that home will not be lost in the long run.
As we look at the history that followed Zephaniah' time, we know that Jerusalem was overrun and many of the people were forced into exile for three-quarters of a century, but that a later generation did return to Judah - where home was restored and experienced a new.
It was not as if they had no home while in exile, but that they created a home-away-from-home.
The prophet said that the promise of a feeling of belonging and home was cause to rejoice now.
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As we are progressing through this advent season, the candles of our wreath do not simply give us a new theme for each new week.
Today is not about 'joy' alone.
The candlelight is intended to be a cumulative image for us.  Today, is not just about joy - but about joy that can emerge within the contexts created by hope and peace.
Even when joy is hard - especially when joy is hard, we want to experience joy: which as the etymology of the word Paul used reminds us of the gift of God's grace know in a peace that is beyond our best understanding.
It is in this context the both Zephaniah and Paul are encouraging us to embrace an authentic hope for joy.
As we are humble enough to trust in God's presence, we can be purveyors of a joy-filled story.
And we might just find that sense of home where there is joy possible in the midst of worry and fear.
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Let us pray;
O God, show us the way to your heart - where we can feel at home.  Amen.


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